You open the kindy gate and they run to you like everything is okay. The educator says they’ve had a great day—but minutes later, you’re in the car park facing tears, resistance, or a full meltdown. If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. These moments aren’t about behaviour—they’re a sign your child’s nervous system has reached its limit. In this blog, I share why this happens and what can help make pick-ups feel calmer and more connected.